John McEnroe, Jr., in a forthcoming book, says
he felt "squeezed out" after his parents adopted a road
when he was eight. The adoption was a signature event in his childhood--
an event, he says, that explains the source of his combustibility.
"I was never the same after that. I never
trusted anybody after that."
McEnroe says his parents initially planned
to adopt Cambodian twins, but settled instead on a stretch of
road near the family home in Merrick, LI.
"I felt replaced. I'd never imagined having
to compete with a road for my parents' attention. It definitely
did a number on me."
The "adopt a road" program is a state-funded
program that asks the public to take a lead in keeping their roads
clean.
"But [my parents] took it way beyond that,"
McEnroe says. "That stretch of road became like the child
they'd always hoped-for."
McEnroe says he now gets where "my road
rage comes from."
"It comes from having had a road as a
sibling. No kid should have to call a road part of his family."
McEnroe says he's forgiven his parents
for their "warped priorities," but adds, "I'm still
pissed. I am. But I'll tell you this: I'm not gonna let this eat
me up forever."
Copyright (c) 2005 by Steve Becker. All
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